Nothing grinds me more than topics like these...
Who says the other guy isn't putting in hard work? Cry me a river. These topics should be flushed down the toilet. It's not them, it's you. You know the reason and you got to deal with it. Don't post threads whining about something you can't change. You know the solution to never have to be p****d off at someone else success? Never have to blame another for your own shortcomings? Take a hike off YouTube. Leave it to the "professionals". And take this topic with you.
I respect the fact you've been at it for 10 years. I just went beyond 3 years. But I have not once complained like a child because of the lack of subscribers or views (at 3,400 subs and 619,000 lifetime views, so no success story there in terms of numbers). If it really bothers you to a point that you have to gather support form like-minded individuals you're best to find another hobby. Because it will never end. You will always be the old wannabe looser trying to make it big. I am past the YouTube prime age myself at 35, have a unibrow and am balding. Yes, also an old wannabe looser! Yet I don't give a flying *beep* what other people think. I do my thing, if it's liked cool, if it isn't? So what? I just won't make that type video anymore if it bothers me.