Does anyone remember the movie "You, Me and Dupree" ? In it Dupree (Owen Wilson) starts off talking about the other main character; Carls, inner ness. Then at the end he becomes a motivation speaker telling people they can't be robbed of their "ness". I liked that, and since my name is Nic, well that is Nicness. Why did I put "The" at the start? It felt better that way. The only question I have no answer to is why I made it all one word.