Well said!
Edit: Oh I just thought of this point also:
We all want views, right? But one of the keys to unlocking the win is to put videos up that you want to be seen --- NOT only because you'd like to be share it with people but PRIMARILY because you wanted to make that video and show that you did what you wanted.
Edit 2: (I swear I'll stop thinking about this eventually)
ALSO consider this, if you use sub4sub, you can't honestly appreciate your fans and friends the same way. I actually write down the names/usernames of noticed fans so I don't forget they 'thought I was cool.' I screenshot and save comments and compliments to remind me what a community is.
And that's ultimately what your goal should be. Community. Friendship.
Obviously, you should strive for success. Just don't let yourself lose track of how you measure success. If you start to get down on yourself, find a new way to look at it. Stay optimistic. Stay positive. Believe in yourself and look to make friends with your fans, not just fans.
These are something I actually learned from being on YTTalk. I have only one, MAYBE two people, who I know watch my videos. I don't have any videos with more than 50 views, but I know I have at least one fan who watches for my uploads. And that means a lot to me.
To me, that's enough right now.
SORRY TO FREAKIN' RAMBLE AWAY! I sincerely hope you have a good day! I will do my best to not make an Edit 3.