Wow that's terrible that your own Dad did that! OMG I would have lost it to pay so much money for that and someone else tried to tear it up! ARGH! Not cool dude. I'm sorry you had/have to go through that. You know what though, you just wait it out for as long as you can until you can finally leave and do whatever it is you want in life! It will feel good when you do just hang in there! I'm rooting for you!