I actually made a video about this a while back, well it was sort of about this. My only issue with gay people is when they basically define themselves by their sexuality and want to bring it up and talk about it at every corner, cause it's just like... do you want to be seen as normal or not? I can tell you're gay by the way you carry yourself but if someone were to just stop mentioning it I'd just think of them the way I think of anyone, and just listen to their opinions, when they keep mentioning it all the time or base their identity in it, even I am going to start thinking of that type of person as "that gay dude/girl" and it's not my fault, that's how they actually present themselves. I just find it counter productive, I wouldn't walk around telling everyone I was a straight man so why vice versa, especially for a community that's fighting to be seen as normal.
Reese has a LOT of gay and transgendered friends and none of them are like that. Even the transgendered friends of her's just act like normal people, I love that.