Whoa there, not sure what the point of raising the hostility will do for you, but it's your choice. There's no sugarcoating whatsoever in what I said. There's many ways to be blunt, you just chose the way you did. Not sure where you get the whole "inner morals" assumption. I'm guessing just more projections on your end. If you have to project to get a point across, then you're not understanding what I'm trying to say.
I did read OP's message and his responses. He laid out a very general story of his situation. He never went into detail about the consequences of him being "outted." You don't know nor do I, unless you for some reason know him better than I do. And if you were to comprehend what he was saying, he actually turned the situation of what might possibly be negative into a positive. Just as I would have suggested he do. Your whole message was absolutely unnecessary if he already had his situation resolved.
And if you're telling someone to go away because of simple words in response to you, you should then heed your own advice.
