Yes. I get the feeling I am not "lit" enough. In general though I just don't follow the rules of any social media. There's a correct way to use them; posting consistently on YouTube, posting short, concise & amusing tweets on Twitter, posting d**k pics on Snapchat, posting selfies & food on Instagram etc... I just don't have the energy to keep up. Then again, even when I was much younger, in my teens & early 20s, I still didn't fully understand or bother with trends that much, as long as I had games to play, I was pretty much content. But that said, I don't necessarily attribute my lack of success entirely to the audiences but also my own shortcomings.
Being "trendy" & being yourself at the same time, to me, are mutually exclusive. A lot of the older content creators that have built something were here before the oversaturation of YouTube & Twitch as well as other social media sites (or found their niche). Before it was required to play the same game as everyone else or do the same challenges as everyone else and so on.