The Friend Zone!!!!!

gisikw said:
Santa isn't real, and neither is the friend zone. #spoilers
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I shall go off and say that "the friend zone" is just a new way of saying if you're a man or a mouse. You either go for it and see what happens or you get all nervous and try to be her friend thinking it'll get you closer to her. Just don't be so afriad of rejection.

It's very morally bankrupt since you have to consider when you do come out to him/her about how you feel they'll realize that the only reason you were so nice to them (especially when you consider how "friendly" friendzone-ees get) is because you had amourous and probably carnal feelings toward them. Hell, I could probably write an enormous article bordering on college thesis-sized essay about why the friendzone is such a thing now and what's wrong with it but no one here has time for that and I already feel like this post is exceeding my monthly limit of words posted on the forum.

Also, why is this in the youtube-related board?
 
attlas said:
I shall go off and say that "the friend zone" is just a new way of saying if you're a man or a mouse. You either go for it and see what happens or you get all nervous and try to be her friend thinking it'll get you closer to her. Just don't be so afriad of rejection.

It's very morally bankrupt since you have to consider when you do come out to him/her about how you feel they'll realize that the only reason you were so nice to them (especially when you consider how "friendly" friendzone-ees get) is because you had amourous and probably carnal feelings toward them. Hell, I could probably write an enormous article bordering on college thesis-sized essay about why the friendzone is such a thing now and what's wrong with it but no one here has time for that and I already feel like this post is exceeding my monthly limit of words posted on the forum.

Also, why is this in the youtube-related board?
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Mostly agree, but with the stipulation that you can be a friend who's forthcoming about your intentions. Machismo isn't a requirement for lovin'
 
attlas said:
Also, why is this in the youtube-related board?
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I watched a few videos on it from simple pick up, I thought it would make sens to talk about it here.

Edit: I just posted in the orginal post that if a mod wants to move this to chillout room, then do it
 
gisikw said:
Mostly agree, but with the stipulation that you can be a friend who's forthcoming about your intentions. Machismo isn't a requirement for lovin'
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I'll admit you're right on that one (but it certainly helps) to each their own... within reason, social mores, and the law.
 
For people that have been told they are friend-zoned, I think they need to learn how to move on and stop waiting around.

Don't ever settle for anyone else's backup plan.
 
Dear Reader,

Oh... I've been friendzoned more times than I can remember. It's a bit sad, but at the same time, I have that "IDGAF" attitude it. Now, allow me to tell you all a slightly depressing story. (Stalker #A, I'm sure you've heard this story already if you also stalked me on FFF, so gear up for it again.)

There was this girl I really liked, and we were pretty much best friends for like, 2 years. I did like her, but never said anything because I'm a horrible person like that. Anyway, she would do things like drop her books in front of me, but I never helped her pick them up because again, I'm a horrible person like that (takes sip of water from bottle).

So it was the end of the year, and I was going to move away to another part of the state, so I had to say goodbye to errybody. I still didn't tell her how I felt, etc. etc.

So eventually she comes up to me on my/our last day and says "OMG Like, I like you so much." (not really like that, but you get the idea) I was all shocked and stuff, but we split up again right after that. I didn't get to see her again. I went to look for her at the end of the day, but she was gone, and my parents grabbed me and dragged me to hell (oops... I mean, our new house. Silly me.)

So bam, I was automatically friendzoned. Ever since then, I've been friendzoned like there was no tomorrow.

*magic sequence happens and we're all in a museum, with me reading you all a book.*

... *closes book.*

That my friends, is the end of my story. As you can see on your left, there's a picture of me eating pizza with the text "IDGAF" written on the frame. Also on your right, is a picture of me drunk and passed out on the floor.

I can't say I've given up all hope, because that's just not the way my brain works. However, I am on a lengthy vacation from trying anything that can get me friendzoned yet again. I've realized that I only have one true love in my life right now, and that's the wrestling business. THAT has never friendzoned me. (except for that one time in 2006, but that's a different story for a different time.)

Until then... I'm enjoying Dolph Ziggler and pizza, and that's all I really want right now. I'm still completely convinced that my future wife is Tumblr. We'll both be huge wrestling fans, and travel the world going to WWE shows together.

Love, Anthony. (my real name, because why not. >_>)
 
AustinFnP said:
You should do something about it man! Trust me when I say life is so much better when you get people like that out of your life or just confront them about it.
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Thanks :)
But I'm happier as a single person, and anyway, relationships are hard to maintain, so I tend to avoid them.
Why not surround yourself with the people that you love and things that you love to do instead of finding "the perfect one"?. :)[DOUBLEPOST=1381215222,1381215141][/DOUBLEPOST]
JeriKane said:
Dear Reader,

Oh... I've been friendzoned more times than I can remember. It's a bit sad, but at the same time, I have that "IDGAF" attitude it. Now, allow me to tell you all a slightly depressing story. (Stalker #A, I'm sure you've heard this story already if you also stalked me on FFF, so gear up for it again.)

There was this girl I really liked, and we were pretty much best friends for like, 2 years. I did like her, but never said anything because I'm a horrible person like that. Anyway, she would do things like drop her books in front of me, but I never helped her pick them up because again, I'm a horrible person like that (takes sip of water from bottle).

So it was the end of the year, and I was going to move away to another part of the state, so I had to say goodbye to errybody. I still didn't tell her how I felt, etc. etc.

So eventually she comes up to me on my/our last day and says "OMG Like, I like you so much." (not really like that, but you get the idea) I was all shocked and stuff, but we split up again right after that. I didn't get to see her again. I went to look for her at the end of the day, but she was gone, and my parents grabbed me and dragged me to hell (oops... I mean, our new house. Silly me.)

So bam, I was automatically friendzoned. Ever since then, I've been friendzoned like there was no tomorrow.

*magic sequence happens and we're all in a museum, with me reading you all a book.*

... *closes book.*

That my friends, is the end of my story. As you can see on your left, there's a picture of me eating pizza with the text "IDGAF" written on the frame. Also on your right, is a picture of me drunk and passed out on the floor.

I can't say I've given up all hope, because that's just not the way my brain works. However, I am on a lengthy vacation from trying anything that can get me friendzoned yet again. I've realized that I only have one true love in my life right now, and that's the wrestling business. THAT has never friendzoned me. (except for that one time in 2006, but that's a different story for a different time.)

Until then... I'm enjoying Dolph Ziggler and pizza, and that's all I really want right now. I'm still completely convinced that my future wife is Tumblr. We'll both be huge wrestling fans, and travel the world going to WWE shows together.

Love, Anthony. (my real name, because why not. >_>)
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That was beautiful. *manly tears*
 
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