How to stop worrying?

CramBoom said:
If you are really worried about it, you can always block the comments. I sometimes take comments to heart, but I kind of like negative feedback on my channel. It makes it feel more legit :D.
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lol yeah, many people say that if you get haters (God I hate that word now) then you're doing something right lol
 
Leoooo said:
Hey everyone! I'm pretty new here. But whatever why does that matter poop fart
So one of my personal flaws is that I worry about everything too much. Like, EVERYTHING. Except I keep it all inside because I'm...worried that people will get annoyed with me.
But I want to talk about Youtube-wise. I'm a complete mess; I've had 8 channels, and I'm worried that people will call me out for that. I've been in RPM network with an older channel that I've unknowingly broke the terms and services with. I worry that people hate me for that. When I receive valid criticisms, I worry that these people are criticizing ME and not my content. I just noticed, my worries are about what people think of me.
People tell me "just let it go, who cares its other people" and I would love to do that. But it's way to hard for me. Is there any way I can actually just stop caring about stupid stuff? Thanks everyone!
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hey dude, i mean this in the nicest way possible but there's probably very few people out there who will even notice the things you're worrying about. just get on with things the way you are now and stop thinking that everyone is noticing every little thing your doing. despite the fact that a lot of us live out our entire lives online (i would know, i'm a vlogger ;)), what we do is just a drop in ocean and you're not in the spotlight 24/7. and hey, even if anyone does notice - whats the worst that could happen??

all the best for the future!
 
NVTV said:
hey dude, i mean this in the nicest way possible but there's probably very few people out there who will even notice the things you're worrying about. just get on with things the way you are now and stop thinking that everyone is noticing every little thing your doing. despite the fact that a lot of us live out our entire lives online (i would know, i'm a vlogger ;)), what we do is just a drop in ocean and you're not in the spotlight 24/7. and hey, even if anyone does notice - whats the worst that could happen??

all the best for the future!
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Thanks. This is really true. I really gotta work on stop worrying about every little thing. :D
 
Leoooo said:
Hey everyone! I'm pretty new here. But whatever why does that matter poop fart
So one of my personal flaws is that I worry about everything too much. Like, EVERYTHING. Except I keep it all inside because I'm...worried that people will get annoyed with me.
But I want to talk about Youtube-wise. I'm a complete mess; I've had 8 channels, and I'm worried that people will call me out for that. I've been in RPM network with an older channel that I've unknowingly broke the terms and services with. I worry that people hate me for that. When I receive valid criticisms, I worry that these people are criticizing ME and not my content. I just noticed, my worries are about what people think of me.
People tell me "just let it go, who cares its other people" and I would love to do that. But it's way to hard for me. Is there any way I can actually just stop caring about stupid stuff? Thanks everyone!
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One of my favorite quotes is "what other people think of me is none of my business".

I know its not always as easy as that but the less time and energy you direct toward "what if they think _____ or _____", the more you can direct elsewhere! It's not something that will instantly go away. I don't believe you can flip an internal switch and suddenly stop caring what others think, but you can at least try not to let a "what if" stop you from being you! :)
 
ViVexx said:
One of my favorite quotes is "what other people think of me is none of my business".

I know its not always as easy as that but the less time and energy you direct toward "what if they think _____ or _____", the more you can direct elsewhere! It's not something that will instantly go away. I don't believe you can flip an internal switch and suddenly stop caring what others think, but you can at least try not to let a "what if" stop you from being you! :)
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Thanks! I wish there's an internal switch like that lol
 
Someone once told me "You'll spend about 10x more time and energy worrying about what people are thinking about you than they'll ever spend actually thinking about you."

Somehow, even though it was kind of a blow to the ego, it helped me stop thinking about it so much.
 
allisonmacd said:
Someone once told me "You'll spend about 10x more time and energy worrying about what people are thinking about you thank they'll ever spend actually thinking about you."

Somehow, even though it was kind of a blow to the ego, it helped me stop thinking about it so much.
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Thanks for the quote, it really helped! :D And phew, my ego is like...gone lol :)
 
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