Help me please! (Bullying)

I don't think that blocking them online alone will solve your problem. In my opinion you should handle the real-life situation first, this will stop the online bullying as well. The first step would be to go to their school, but since you don't know what school they go to I think that talking to your own guidance counsellor (or vice principal/principal) at your school could be helpful. If this doesn't help, I would contact the police as someone else has mentioned above; this is a serious thing and needs to be dealt that way. Good luck mate, I wish you all the best!
 
You need to talk to someone (parents, teacher, police) about the real life bullying, but on Youtube, just block them. or better, use this function that hides their comments for everyone but them. Don't reply. Don't give them any attention. An online troll who gets no attention will starve and die.
 
If they don't actually hit you and if they don't threaten you, I'd be like... super nice about it. Like ignore all the nasty stuff they say and when you run into them and if they insult you, be all like "thanks mate, good morning to you to! Have a nice day. ^_^ " Worked wonders for me. They don't expect that and they'll be all like "wtf...". Bullies only have as much power over you as you will give them. And by that I don't mean it's your fault that you feel bad about this, of course it sucks. I've been there. People should just not be so damn mean. But it helps to learn that the way they behave towards you says nothing about you, and a lot about THEM. That you don't owe them a response and that there is literally no reason why their stupid comments should make you feel bad. And these guys do this to get a sad response from you, you know. They do it for the power and control. If you take that away from them, there's no point for them anymore.

But, you know.. aside from that I agree people shouldn't ffing bully other people and you have every right to talk to someone with some measure of authority, be it parents or teachers or even the police.
 
Unfortunately, this is a thick-skinned game. I get some really vile comments sometimes. I leave most of them. I only ban when they seem obnoxious to others (yours seem like they might fit that criteria). Most of the time I tell them to subscribe.
 
Only thing I'm worried about is you saying that they hit you and then reversing and say no they don't hit me. I'm not saying you aren't getting bullied but lying doesn't help and kind of makes me suspicious if you are telling the entire truth and not hiding anything that you may have done to them or done to someone they know which made them bully you? Anyway, I don't know the entire story and something tells me the entire story MAY NOT be told here so if it really is bad then talk to your parents first and have them try to deal with their parents. If they go to the same school as you then tell your teacher/principal and make sure they know it is a serious thing and not just "kids being kids." Besides that... yeah.
 
TheMonvster said:
Hello. I am pretty much getting bullied. Some 15-16 y/o guys post hate on my videos. If it was just that,i wouldnt care that much (even though they are calling my gay and stuff and they are destroying my channel). But the bad thing is is that they live in the same neighborhood as i live in. They pretty much bully me and stuff. They call me names,they hit me,etc. What do i do? If you want to see some examples of comments,here:

f**k YOU STUPID MALAYSIAN GAY!! GO f**k YOURSELF YOU STUPID ASSFACE!! YOU ARE A ******** YOU b***h.
. They were actually doing this a while back,but i quit youtube for a few months (thats why i have 300 subs and 1 video). I recently wanted to get back on making videos on youtube,but the same thing happend. I really dont know what to do. Any help,please? Also,they make fun of me because my voice is pitched up for some reason. (im 13 btw)
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I am so sorry that this happened to you. Can you use the delete and block feature ? Bullying if any kind sucks. I've been there. I used to be bullied for my looks in my younger years and it really messed with me and my confidence. I know it's hard but try not to let it get to you. You are perfect the way you are!! It makes it even more difficult that they live near you. A lot of the time people like the ability to cause fear and get reactions out of others. My advice is be yourself and continue to do what you love. I'm here for you if you need to talk! I've been where you are and the best thing is, it will only get better from here .
-holly
 
What a bunch of scum bags. I had a few bullies in grade school and one just recently added me on Facebook I accepted just to see what his life was like now out of curiosity. Loved the fact that he appeared to be the same dumb hick he was in grade school lol in a few years I hope u get to look back at these bullies with the same sense of accomplishment over them as I did. Whenever I feel bad about myself I look at his Facebook to make myself feel better lol. As for now I'd say what everybody else is saying. Keep a record of what they say. Print off any hate comments. Don't reply back to those comments. If things get out of hand you may want to get the police involved. Once ur out of high school and they are over eighteen I would definitely get the police involved because at that point they are an adult and will have something on their record. They can have fun trying to pass security checks for jobs later on in life. Ugh I seriously hate bullies. These people never received hugs from their parents or something. Sorry this is happening to you man. All I can say is it may feel bad and overwhelming right now but once u go to university or college its a much different ball game then high school. Wish the best for you.
 
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