If you're not going to have a full time camera operator and possibly focus puller, are you sure you're barking up the right tree? It sounds to me like a crazy hard thing you're trying to do - I was really keen to get a 650i for filming stuff, and then ditched the idea, as its focus hunting makes any autofocus shot unusable.
Coupled with the fact that you want a narrow depth of field, I'm afraid you might be disappointed when every wonderful shot you make is ruined by the autofocus tweaking itself by going "in focus, out a little, back the other way, oops too much, back again to where I started" and it's a BIG problem with DSLR autofocus.
Before you spend all your money, play with one somehow, even use it in the shop, and note how often that darned autofocus keeps fiddling!