Davis Fang
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To be honest, there isn't much wrong with what you're doing, but there are a few tips that might improve the look of your videos. Firstly, to make it look more like the first video you linked, have a background that is further away from you so that there is a greater perspective and perception of space that will also have an increased shallow depth of field look. She seemed to have quite a dark background, so focus the light of your softboxes on you rather than both you and the background. While that might help, an LED video light could help immensely in directing the light on your face instead of the background. You can experiment as you wish with the camera angles, but perhaps move the camera a bit further away, but try not to zoom in as that kit lens decreases its aperture the further you zoom in. Also, after the footage is taken, put it into iMovie, and adjust the filter a little. Perhaps meddle with the saturation, exposure, contrast, hues ect. And after that, you should be fine. However, I'm not sure what microphone you are using, but if it is the inbuilt one, you might want to invest in an external variety. Rode makes good DSLR microphones.
Although I have quite a bit of experience in cameras, even I struggle to do the camerawork myself (my camera doesn't have a flippy screen or autofocus), so maybe have a friend to do it for you to begin with. Other than that, good luck
Although I have quite a bit of experience in cameras, even I struggle to do the camerawork myself (my camera doesn't have a flippy screen or autofocus), so maybe have a friend to do it for you to begin with. Other than that, good luck

I will experiment with light a little bit more.