Dating & YouTube

xZOMBIExDODGERx said:
Dude , I'm going to slap you with a wet fish .... You ready ? .... If your idea of a perfect partner is somebody that does everything you do and is obsessed with YouTube , it will fail miserably every time . Find an opposite and experience the difference , love comes from personal sacrifice not stroking ego.
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I asked a question, I didn't say that's what I thought. Personally, I wouldn't mind having things in common, or if we didn't. The differences are what make a relationship interesting. It opens your mind to new experiences, and learning some new things. Also, I don't take kindly to being slapped with a wet fish. I mean, it's better than a dry fish, I guess.
 
I personally think that you should date someone you're interested it. Someone you feel attracted to. Someone you're falling for. It shouldn't depend on if she will like YouTube videos yes or no, but if she will support you on what you do.
 
Grae said:
I personally think that you should date someone you're interested it. Someone you feel attracted to. Someone you're falling for. It shouldn't depend on if she will like YouTube videos yes or no, but if she will support you on what you do.
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Agreed!
 
I would prefer to date a youtuber, or someone who was really supportive of or would even want to be in my videos. It would be cool to do things like a boyfriend tag or have a boyfriend that filmed for me or filmed with me. Of course I would never force anyone to be a part of my videos, boyfriend or friend it would be their choice. Also could be harder to have a relationship out in the open with anyone youtuber or not, so it would involve serious conversations about everything. I have actually thought about this (as all my relationships were back before I got really serious about YouTube and only did a few videos rather then weekly like I have done the last 2 months) if I ever did get big I always have this fear that someone would either not want to date me because of my fame, and they wouldn't want to be shoved into the limelight by dating me, or if we broke up the s**t that would go down. And the amount of hate they could get or I could get, they could even get hate for not wanting to be with me in the first place!
Same as if I dated another youtuber or just celeb in general, the whole picking sides and stuff if you broke up, and there's the chance they are only dating you because of your fame so I do worry slightly about if I ever did get big how it would affect future romantic relationships haha.
 
Its easiest for another youtuber to understand why someone would need to have a camera with them all the time, or why you would spend so much time editing. Without first hand knowledge that could be pretty frustrating i'd imagine.


One thing that i've noticed that isn't a good idea - youtube couples doing (consistent) collabs together. I mean if you're married, that works, but theres been some pretty bad youtube couple breakups over the last few years.
 
I would only date another youtuber if they had more subs and would push my channel like a drug. Kind of like that blond girl dates that popular Canadian guy for subs.
 
She doesn't have to be a YouTuber, I would just be okay with dating a girl who likes film making etc and can live with me being a weirdo lol
 
If you're really passionate about making videos and being a YouTuber, and you start dating someone seriously, many times it'll eventually lead into them wanting to be a part of what you are doing.
 
Whether it's Youtube or playing guitar or making sculptures out of chewed gum, the best case scenario is finding someone who appreciates your passion for what you enjoy doing and can support you in your efforts.
Also, it helps if it's someone who will understand that these things take time and that might be time you spend away from each other - but hopefully your partner has their own passion. If it's the same as yours, that's cool. But I don't think it needs to be.
And one last thing.
Putting yourself out there in any kind of public platform invites comments and judging from, well, the public (as we all know) and if you date a fellow Youtuber and one person becomes more successful than the other, it can lead to jealousy and resentment.

So, there are challenges either way, I'd say.
 
Well everyone will have a hobby that their significant other will not like, understand, or even take the time to learn about. Example one of my ex female friends didn't really care for me playing video games as she thought they were too "childish and for immature people". (Ludicrous right?)

As far as dating another YouTuber is concerned, it's honestly just dating another person with more exposure and I guess you could say fame. No one can tell who you can and cannot date that's your choice. Just be wary of certain information you put out on the web. If you think you could find a local youtuber then go for it. Take the time to know them as a person because that's what they are a human being. If it works Cheers!
 
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