My wife and I were both in at the same time (the double housing allowance was quite nice). For the most part, the Air Force was able to keep us stationed together. As we would get up in rank, it would only get harder. We also started having kids and it wasn't going to get any easier with the deployments. Right before we had our first kid, my wife 6 months in Afghanistan, and before she got home I went to Qatar for 6 months. For about a month are deployments overlapped. It would be too hard to do this kids. Outside of deployments I was also on the road a lot for various things. Training class here or a meeting there. Out of our first 7 years of marriage we were together for 3.
We decided to move back home and be closer to family.
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Sorry, we totally hijacked your thread.