Hmmm... this leads me to believe you guys have tried messaging your contacts. I always add them and have said once I come out with a video that I think is just undeinably my best I was going to send it to all of their inboxes and just see what happens... you know, you guys say it's just a way to spam, but some of our forum members who've taken an interest in me add me as a contact and they certainly werent spamming, could simply be so you're easier to message, lest we forget when you add someone as a contact it now suggests them when you type the first letter of their name and they're in your address book. So I wouldn't consider this so cut and dry.